Monday, October 11, 2010

*older post from my personal blog* -- Jumperoo


Fisher Price Rainforest Jumperoo Cute but not perfect.


I purchased the Rainforest Jumperoo for my twins. and it is a pretty nice product. My twins enjoy it when they play in it but there are a few faults to this product.First off there is absolutely no padding in the seat. The baby will have their tummy against hard, lumpy, edgy plastic. We solved this issue by padding around the entire seat with some nice receiving blankets to avoid any pain or injury that could be caused by leaning and bouncing in the seat while playing in the Jumperoo.The toys on the Jumperoo are rather cute and entertaining but there seems to be too much empty space that could have been used for another toy or two on the Jumperoo. I doubt anyone would want to use the part that appears to be a little snack tray. I don't think it would be wise to let you baby snack while jumping or bouncing wildly as they do in the Jumperoo.The peek-a-boo tiger is a bit lacking in the sense of it could be a little more dramatic and entertaining. A growly but cute lion sound would help. It also needs to pop up higher and sit lower while not being popped up. Nice concept but not quite there.The insect chew toy hangs down off the side of the Jumperoo too far and is often challenging for a baby to grab on and pull it up to play with it. I think maybe something that sticks up but can be pulled in to gnaw on would be a better idea.This Jumperoo is a cute and fun toy however it could be improved.However it does provide enjoyable bouncing fun for baby!

*older post from my personal blog* -- Play Nest :)


Galt Playnest & Gym



Age Range: birth-toddler and beyond

Price Range: $75-$85


Product Description:

A soft supporting multi-sensory environment for baby, Playnest features a fun farm scene with the gym as the sky above. The five gym toys are different on each side to give varied colours and patterns to provide visual stimulation and may be rearranged on the colourful links to create a changing environment. A guide gives suggestions on how to use the Playnest and gym for play activities which stimulate development. The Playnest cover, sky frame cover and soft toys are all machine washable.


My Description:

The Galt Playnest & Gym is a really neat toy, The first time I saw it was when I was browsing the One Step Ahead website. I thought my twins would really like it so I purchased it that same week. So far so good. They were not able to enjoy it quite as much at first when they were newborns but they started enjoying it right away anytime we would put them in the playnest. We have found that stuffing a Boppy pillow inside the playnest provided ample support and comfort for them to play. They love looking at all the lovely bright colored dangling toys and espeically the sun that hangs down from the top of the gym.ImperfectionsI noticed right away that the gym part of the playnest & gym was not as stable as it could be. It was one of the most difficult toys I have ever assembled in my lifetime of being a parent for 13 years. The gym consists of plastic tubes and a plastic connecting tube for the top. The legs of the gym have two tubes that you have to push together and then you have to push the tubes all into the connecting tube at the top of the gym. This is not an easy feat. It not only is nearly impossible and very frustrating to accomplish but you end up hurting your fingers as well. In order to assemble the gym you really need at least one more person to assist you. The plastic tubing and connecting tube do not give way very easily, which is needed in order for it all to connect and create your gym. Let me take time out to say the playnest part of the playnest and gym is very simple and easy to assemble. You simply insert the plastic blow up ring into the nest and once it is in place you can then use an air pump to blow up the ring, fasten it and then close up the playnest.Once you assemble the playnest and the gym you will have to be very careful because the playnest will constantly pop apart. Eventually you will work the plastic in enough for it to stay in place for the most part.It never did fall on my twins, it only would pop out of its place on parts and bow to the side instead of all sitting up straight and even pn all sides.Don't get me wrong we really love this toy but GALT needs to work harder to make the gym part easier to assemble and make it so it stays put!Fun & PlayThe Playnest and Gym can be really fun for your baby. It is best I believe for a baby if you put a Boppy inside it until they are older and can sit unsupported. They can then sit in the playnest and play with their toys.Once your baby starts to tug and pull on the dangling toys that hang from the gym it is best to remove the gym part and let them play with the dangling toys while sitting inside the playnest.When your child gets older the playnest can be used for a unique lounge chair to lay back in and rest while watching tv, reading a book, or just to relax in, indoors and outdoors. It can also double as a really nice toy box as well!In all I think it is a great toy with lovely bright vivid colors and can last well beyond the baby and toddler years if you use your imagination.We keep the playnest in our play area!

Sunday, October 10, 2010

InStep Safari Swivel Wheel Double Jogger

Our double jogger arrived the other. The front tire was slightly challenging at first to attach..but it was not too bad. The stroller is really nice. It glides nicely and is comparable to the $600-$800 double joggers. I paid $172.26 for it. Graham and Parker enjoyed it as much as our Peg Perego. They even wanted to stay in it longer after our walk!!




So far so good, we took it to Sea World yesterday and all went well.  They seemed to enjoy the ride and the snack tray!

Friday, October 8, 2010

CHOO CHOO WAGON!!!!

   Choo Choo Wagon

Today the choo choo wagon by Step2 went on sale.  It had been out of production for quite some time.
This wagon is awesome and so popular with the Moms of Triplets & Quads. & Twin Moms too!  :)

I bought one for my Twins!  I plan to use it for certain playdates and when they finally decide they will not ride in a stroller anymore.. I will have my next solution to managing twins on the go!!  I wanted to be darn sure I bought one before they went out of production again. Those things are a hot item and were selling on ebay for $400 or so. They even still have them on ebay for around that price...even though they are now back into production..in a slightly new format....and today they went back on the Step2 website for sale.
I did purchase the extra cart. So we will have that 3rd cart for items we need to take with us or a friends child. Depending on the situation.  :)

I felt so terrible today for a facebook friend who is a Triplet Mom. She really wanted a 4th trailer cart for her choo choo wagon. She owns one of the choo choo wagons that are no longer in production. She was thrilled to see them coming back and going on sale. So when she went to the Step2 website this morning, the site was updated to state that the new choo choo wagon is NOT compatible with the old one. Meaning, the extra carts won't fit onto her choo choo wagon.

Terrible HUH!!  Give a Triplet Mommy a break already!!!  She just wanted a way to put all the stuff she has to carry with her into a cart to make it easier on her. She totally deserves it too!!!
        
                                              The Original Choo Choo Wagon


I FOUND A SOLUTION!! On accident even!!  I am so so very excited to report that the Step2 Tag-Along Trailer Plus  Now, just some background info.  The Tag Along Trailer Plus is the trailer cart that was made for/with The Step2 Wagon for Two Plus.

OK so How did I find out that the Tag Along Trailer fits on the original Choo Choo Wagon??  Well, like I said on accident and through some googling.  I came across a blog that showed the choo choo wagon with the Tag Along Trailer attached to it.  At first I did not think it was attached but after seeing more pics I saw that it clearly was attached!!  This made me excited!!  I knew I had found a solution for my facebook Friend!!

THIS IS THE PRODUCT DESCRIPTION FROM THE ORIGINAL (OUT OF PRODUCTION) CHOO CHOO WAGON.

This Step2 Classic is back by popular demand, and can only be purchased through Step2.com. This is a limited release, so act now before supplies are exhausted.
  • Two separate cars provide first class seating
  • Each car has comfortable seat and roomy foot well
  • Molded-in cup holders for every seat
  • Front car features under-seat storage
  • Security seat belts in every car
  • Silent-riding poly wheels feature rubber tires
  • Add up to three Choo Choo Trailers for extra capacity. (sold separately)
  • Minimal adult assembly required
  • Choo Choo Trailer sold separately
  • This wagon can be used with the Tag-Along Trailer for cargo   

                                                  Here is proof....

AWESOME!!


So there is great news for Mommys with choo choo wagons who were hoping to purchase an extra trailer cart but found out today, that the new choo choo wagon will not work with the old one.  Good luck!

P.S. My Triplet Mom friend actually found out this same info at the exact same time I did...so when I left her a note on facebook about It..she already knew!  Either way, I really hope this helps someone!!

Next time, I will talk about shade for the choo choo.  :)


update:  HERE with shade!!!

Monday, September 6, 2010

A friend just sent me this link, I find it very interesting. I think I will definately order and read this book. It really has some good points and interesting approaches to early learning. The vast majority of my Mommy facebook friends and many of the Moms in my playgroup have all chosen to send their children ages 18 months - 2 years to preschool very early. I had never heard of this before. Some said it was because they felt their child would benefit greatly from going to preschool at age 1 as opposed to age 4. Some said it was because they had a new baby on the way and wanted to spend one on one time with the baby. Which I had never heard of doing either! Some said it was because they had a new baby on the way and did not want to have to care for two at once. They felt it would be too much for them to handle.








They all have different reasons and ideas. I had never heard of raising children this way. I suppose I would have been living on easy street with my older 3 kids if when every new baby was born, I sent the one at home off to school. I have a daughter who was born April of 1996 and a son in October of 1998, and then a daughter in February of 2000. I kept them all at home....through the good times and the bad. We went to playdates, on educational outings, did some learning at home, bought some workbooks for extra learning...and mostly just played and had fun.







Fast forward 8 years later I had twin boys. My older 3 were already well established in school. The latest buzz is that even my Mommy friends that do not have a new baby on the way or a job are sending their kids to preschool in the next few months. I don't plan to, I plan to home preschool them and just have fun for the most part. I guess this book will be very helpful for me! Every mom will raise their child the best way that they can, some need to put their kids in school at age 1 to do that. I guess now since it has become the normal and popular thing to do, it is the right thing to do. I am going to keep on doing the wrong thing and wait until age 4 for preschool. In the mean time we will enjoy some light home preschooling starting at age 3 with some good old fashioned playtime mixed in as well and from now until then it is play, play, play!







Einstein Never Used Flash Cards: How Our Children Really Learn -- and Why They Need to Play More and Memorize Less













Einstein Never Used Flash Cards











Here's the message that stressed-out parents are craving to hear: It's okay to play!











In fact, it's more than just okay-- it's better than drilling academics. After decades of research, scientists and child development experts have come to a clear conclusion: Play is the best way for our children to learn.











Children who are prematurely pushed into regimented academic instruction display less creativity and enthusiasm for learning in later years.









Children who memorize isolated facts early in life show no better long-term retention than their peers.









Children who learn through play also develop social and emotional skills, which are critical for long-term success.











Somewhere along the line, we've gotten off track by stressing academic products and programs to our preschoolers. Thankfully, Dr. Kathy Hirsh-Pasek and Dr. Roberta Michnick Golinkoff have a simple remedy for our children that is based on overwhelming scientific evidence from their own studies and the collective research results of child development experts.















Einstein Never Used Flash Cards goes beyond debunking the myths spread by the accelerated-learning industry. Parents and educators will find a practical guide to introducing complex concepts through smart, simple, and loving play.









For every key area of a child's development (speech, reading, math, social skills, self-awareness, and intelligence), you'll understand how a child's mind actually learns. Then you'll discover exercises (40 in all) that will showcase emerging skills and leave your child smiling today-- and prepared for tomorrow.











Kathy Hirsh-Pasek, Ph.D, is a member of the psychology department at Temple University, where she directs the Infant Language Laboratory and participated in one of the nation's largest studies of the effects of child care. The mother of three sons, she also composes and performs children's music.





Roberta Michnick Golinkoff, Ph.D0, is the H. Rodney Sharp Professor in the School of Education at the University of Delaware, where she holds a joint appointment with the departments of linguistics and psychology and directs the Infant Language Project. She has also been a recipient of the John Simon Guggenheim Memorial Fellowship and is the mother of a son and a daughter.





Together, the authors were featured on the PBS Human Language series and are the authors of How Babies Talk.





Diane Eyer, Ph.D, is a member of the psychology department at Temple University and author of Motherguilt and Mother-Infant Bonding.









Review:









"Although the research-laden text is sometimes dense, parents will find a valuable message if they stick with the program, ultimately relieving themselves and their offspring of stress and creating a more balanced life." Publishers Weekly









Review:









"[A] treasure trove of information and advice. A trustworthy parenting resource from two highly respected scholars." Linda Acredolo, author of Baby Signs









Synopsis:









Play Is Back









Reassuring to parents and educators, Einstein Never Used Flash Cards shows why-- and how-- to step away from the cult of achievement and toward a more nurturing home life full of imaginative play and love of learning.











"An elegant summary of what mind and brain science can tell us about child development and learning. The reasonable and reassuring implications the authors draw from this research provide a much-needed corrective to the hype and distortions all too prevalent in the popular media. Finally, the truth!"--John T. Bruer, Ph.D., president of the James S. McDonnell Foundation and author of The Myth of the First Three Years











"Parents eager to know what to do-- and even more important, what not to do-- to help their children discover and take advantage of their hidden talents will find this well-written book a treasure trove of information and advice. A trustworthy parenting resource from two highly respected scholars!"--Linda Acredolo, Ph.D., professor of psychology at the University of California, Davis, and author of Baby Signs and Baby Minds









"This book makes it easy to be a good parent! It explains how, by nurturing your child's love for learning through play, you will foster initiative, creativity, curiosity, empathy, and self-esteem-- in sum, a happy child. Isn't that what we all want? Indeed, I gained many new insights into how my 4- and 2-year-old daughters are engaged in learning through their own magical play."--Janet Rice Elman, executive director of the Association of Children's Museums in Washington, D.C.









"Although parents know that the early years are learning years, just what that means has been confusing-- until now. Einstein Never Used Flash Cards makes practical sense of the vast number of technical studies and hyperbole of advertising claims. It explains in clear, compelling, and scientific terms how learning really takes place. This book is a must-read for parents, grandparents, teachers, caregivers, pediatricians, and policy makers-- in other words, all those who care about and for the next generation of children."--Ellen Galinsky, president and cofounder of the Families and Work Institute in New York City









Synopsis:









Includes bibliographical references (p. 269-286) and index.













About the Author









Kathy Hirsh-Pasek, Ph.D., is a member of the psychology department at Temple University, where she directs the Infant Language Laboratory and participated in one of the nation's largest studies of the effects of child care. The mother of three sons, she also composes and performs children's music.









Roberta Michnick Golinkoff, Ph.D., is the H. Rodney Sharp Professor in the School of Education at the University of Delaware, where she holds a joint appointment with the departments of linguistics and psychology and directs the Infant Language Project. She has also been a recipient of the John Simon Guggenheim Memorial Fellowship and is the mother of a son and a daughter.

Einstein Never Used Flash Cards

A friend just sent me this link, I find it very interesting. I think I will definately order and read this book. It really has some good points and interesting approaches to early learning.  The vast majority of my Mommy facebook friends and many of the Moms in my playgroup have all chosen to send their children ages 18 months - 2 years to preschool very early. I had never heard of this before.  Some said it was because they felt their child would benefit greatly from going to preschool at age 1 as opposed to age 4. Some said it was because they had a new baby on the way and wanted to spend one on one time with the baby. Which I had never heard of doing either! Some said it was because they had a new baby on the way and did not want to have to care for two at once. They felt it would be too much for them to handle.

They all have different reasons and ideas. I had never heard of raising children this way. I suppose I would have been living on easy street with my older 3 kids if when every new baby was born, I sent the one at home off to school. I have a daughter who was born April of 1996 and a son in October of 1998, and then a daughter in February of 2000. I kept them all at home....through the good times and the bad.  We went to playdates, on educational outings, did some learning at home, bought some workbooks for extra learning...and mostly just played and had fun.

Fast forward 8 years later I had twin boys. My older 3 were already well established in school. The latest buzz is that even my Mommy friends that do not have a new baby on the way or a job are sending their kids to preschool in the next few months. I don't plan to, I plan to home preschool them and just have fun for the most part. I guess this book will be very helpful for me! Every mom will raise their child the best way that they can, some need to put their kids in school at age 1 to do that.   I guess now since it has become the normal and popular thing to do, it is the right thing to do. I am going to keep on doing the wrong thing and wait until age 4 for preschool. In the mean time we will enjoy some light home preschooling starting at age 3 with some good old fashioned playtime mixed in as well and from now until then it is play, play, play!

Einstein Never Used Flash Cards: How Our Children Really Learn -- and Why They Need to Play More and Memorize Less



Einstein Never Used Flash Cards

Here's the message that stressed-out parents are craving to hear: It's okay to play!

In fact, it's more than just okay-- it's better than drilling academics. After decades of research, scientists and child development experts have come to a clear conclusion: Play is the best way for our children to learn.

Children who are prematurely pushed into regimented academic instruction display less creativity and enthusiasm for learning in later years.


Children who memorize isolated facts early in life show no better long-term retention than their peers.


Children who learn through play also develop social and emotional skills, which are critical for long-term success.

Somewhere along the line, we've gotten off track by stressing academic products and programs to our preschoolers. Thankfully, Dr. Kathy Hirsh-Pasek and Dr. Roberta Michnick Golinkoff have a simple remedy for our children that is based on overwhelming scientific evidence from their own studies and the collective research results of child development experts.



Einstein Never Used Flash Cards goes beyond debunking the myths spread by the accelerated-learning industry. Parents and educators will find a practical guide to introducing complex concepts through smart, simple, and loving play.


For every key area of a child's development (speech, reading, math, social skills, self-awareness, and intelligence), you'll understand how a child's mind actually learns. Then you'll discover exercises (40 in all) that will showcase emerging skills and leave your child smiling today-- and prepared for tomorrow.

Kathy Hirsh-Pasek, Ph.D, is a member of the psychology department at Temple University, where she directs the Infant Language Laboratory and participated in one of the nation's largest studies of the effects of child care. The mother of three sons, she also composes and performs children's music.
Roberta Michnick Golinkoff, Ph.D0, is the H. Rodney Sharp Professor in the School of Education at the University of Delaware, where she holds a joint appointment with the departments of linguistics and psychology and directs the Infant Language Project. She has also been a recipient of the John Simon Guggenheim Memorial Fellowship and is the mother of a son and a daughter.
Together, the authors were featured on the PBS Human Language series and are the authors of How Babies Talk.
Diane Eyer, Ph.D, is a member of the psychology department at Temple University and author of Motherguilt and Mother-Infant Bonding.


Review:

"Although the research-laden text is sometimes dense, parents will find a valuable message if they stick with the program, ultimately relieving themselves and their offspring of stress and creating a more balanced life." Publishers Weekly

Review:

"[A] treasure trove of information and advice. A trustworthy parenting resource from two highly respected scholars." Linda Acredolo, author of Baby Signs

Synopsis:

Play Is Back


Reassuring to parents and educators, Einstein Never Used Flash Cards shows why-- and how-- to step away from the cult of achievement and toward a more nurturing home life full of imaginative play and love of learning.

"An elegant summary of what mind and brain science can tell us about child development and learning. The reasonable and reassuring implications the authors draw from this research provide a much-needed corrective to the hype and distortions all too prevalent in the popular media. Finally, the truth!"--John T. Bruer, Ph.D., president of the James S. McDonnell Foundation and author of The Myth of the First Three Years

"Parents eager to know what to do-- and even more important, what not to do-- to help their children discover and take advantage of their hidden talents will find this well-written book a treasure trove of information and advice. A trustworthy parenting resource from two highly respected scholars!"--Linda Acredolo, Ph.D., professor of psychology at the University of California, Davis, and author of Baby Signs and Baby Minds


"This book makes it easy to be a good parent! It explains how, by nurturing your child's love for learning through play, you will foster initiative, creativity, curiosity, empathy, and self-esteem-- in sum, a happy child. Isn't that what we all want? Indeed, I gained many new insights into how my 4- and 2-year-old daughters are engaged in learning through their own magical play."--Janet Rice Elman, executive director of the Association of Children's Museums in Washington, D.C.


"Although parents know that the early years are learning years, just what that means has been confusing-- until now. Einstein Never Used Flash Cards makes practical sense of the vast number of technical studies and hyperbole of advertising claims. It explains in clear, compelling, and scientific terms how learning really takes place. This book is a must-read for parents, grandparents, teachers, caregivers, pediatricians, and policy makers-- in other words, all those who care about and for the next generation of children."--Ellen Galinsky, president and cofounder of the Families and Work Institute in New York City


Synopsis:

Includes bibliographical references (p. 269-286) and index.


About the Author

Kathy Hirsh-Pasek, Ph.D., is a member of the psychology department at Temple University, where she directs the Infant Language Laboratory and participated in one of the nation's largest studies of the effects of child care. The mother of three sons, she also composes and performs children's music.

Roberta Michnick Golinkoff, Ph.D., is the H. Rodney Sharp Professor in the School of Education at the University of Delaware, where she holds a joint appointment with the departments of linguistics and psychology and directs the Infant Language Project. She has also been a recipient of the John Simon Guggenheim Memorial Fellowship and is the mother of a son and a daughter.

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

What I am and what I know...

As I was changing my daughters diaper and listening to her twin brother have a melt down in the next room it occurred to me that I was a better mother before I had kids!

How did I do it? I was a mothers helper, nanny, babysitter extraordinaire! Has life in the business world really changed me, or am I human now? No longer a 21 year old super girl (who got to leave at the end of the day)!

The good news – I accept it.

I am mother – hear me groan.

Listen up ladies – it’s all good. I realized awhile ago, somewhere on the road to sleeping 4 hours a night, that doing your best does not mean that it is the best there is, everyday. It just means doing the best that you have, every minute of every day. Sometimes the best you can give is 10%, sometimes it is 110%.

Here is my list of priorities; Love, Full tummies, Empty diapers, Clean clothes (subjective!).

Somewhere between the fantasy family life I had planned for myself and the reality of my life as a single 40 year old mother of twins I stopped caring what people think. I started to believe in myself and I learned gratitude.

I am so grateful for the life that I have, the one that I chose and made “all by myself”.

Things I never truly understood until I was a mother (of multiples):

  • There are days when at 8am you start counting the hours until you can put them to bed at night
  • There is always enough room on your lap for one more, no matter where you are or how small your lap is
  • There is no better sound in the world that that of “your new alarm clock” when it wakes up after finally sleeping 6, 8 and even 10 hours through the night for the first time
  • There is magic at play in the world, it exists in your hugs, their smiles and the way you can function on no sleep
  • You will never be the same, and it’s good
  • “They” lie to you when “they” tell you that you won’t mind when it is your own kid, Poop can be disgusting, no matter whose it is. You just do it anyway.
  • Your new mantra in life becomes “I am the mother, I can do this” and then you can
  • Once the babies are asleep for more than 20 mins you begin to live in fear of the doorbell ringing, the dog barking, the pots clanging or any other noise that might penetrate their subconscious and make them say – “Hey, what am I missing”
  • No matter where or how they fall asleep, you will not move them, touch them or breathe on them and doing so is punishable by death.
  • All your ideas of what good parenting is – GONE. Good parenting is survival and love. If the kids are happy and somewhat clean (for at least 5 mins a day) you are a master.
  • You will look forward to any chance you get to leave them for a bit of “you” time until the moment you have to walk out the door.
  • There are never enough extra laundry baskets.
  • There are never enough bottles.
  • There are never enough spoons, microwavable baby bowls, advil, blankets, sheets, face clothes, bibs, hours in a day, hours of sleep in a night, chances to go to the grocery store, or opportunities to sit quietly with a cup of coffee and you can forget ever going to the bathroom again.
  • You need a bigger freezer, no, way bigger.
  • It is truly wonderful and validating when someone younger and in better shape than you says “I don’t know how you do this all day, I am exhausted.”
  • You smile, sooo much more everyday than you ever used to or thought you could.
  • You know guilt.
  • You know what true, deep, all encompassing love really feels like and see it reflected (I am sure this changes to contempt when we hit the teen years, will let you know).
  • If you have carpets, you need a carpet cleaner.
  • Babies are bendy and resilient and made to survive new parents.
  • Its ok to let it all go and just hang on till help comes.
  • You need help.
  • You need lots and lots and lots of help. Sometimes with the kids, sometimes with your laundry, dishes, vacuuming, dinner, and sometimes just with your spirit.
  • The emergency room is a very very scary place.
  • This is a fly by the seat of your pants game.
  • The girl guide motto is your best friend “Be Prepared”.
  • Any experience you have working in triage will help you immensely. You spend much of the day determining level of need.
  • There are days when you get an unexpected rush of joy at seeing them after a nap.
  • You live with abundance and you love abundance.
  • Hugs should always be a full contact sport.

Oh...and naps are never long enough...the beasts are waking...

Catch my new blog at: http://doinitall-myway.blogspot.com/

Some ideas for stripper toddlers!!

I have seen a lot of my Multiples Mommy friends online later have stripper toddlers that get naked and go potty on the floor.

No Fun!!

My heart goes out to you all and a big hug to all of you out there.

but....
I do have a few ideas though that may help!!

Wear a onesie on them BACKWARDS!!
Seriously, get a size larger if necessary. Gerber makes onesies in larger sizes and you can get the onesue extenders too for a bigger toddler. The child (in theory) should not be able to read the crotch snaps if they are in the back.

Onesies at Babies R US



Onesie extenders at onestepahead.com (One of my personal favorite online kids stores)


Use Mitten clips for fastening their shirts to their pants or shorts!! Yes, I know it is a crazy idea but it should keep the clothes ON!!!  That is what is important!!


I found these and other childrens clips and Suspenders at the Suspender Store


I also found them on amazon.com

Suspenders could be a huge help too, and they make them in many cute parrents and colors!!


So I leave you with a hopeful set of ideas and really hope things improve quickly!!

Monday, July 12, 2010

Two year old twins can really wear you out!!

I noticed that not only are my twins a handful recently, but other Mothers of newly two year old twins seem to be dealing with the same issues.  WOW, you double bundles of cuteness can really put Mama to work!!

I see a lot of the same posts online from other twin moms with two year olds. Then I realize HOLY COW that happens here too!!

I am trying to be objective, observant, and optimistic at the same time. So far, mostly so good.

They are SO BUSY, they need to go out every day and play with other kids or it is nothing but madness and terror!!

I wonder if it is because there are two of them. What makes these twins tick? I had singletons close in age and they were not this way.

Singletons don't seem to be quite like this. They have to get out of the house and be outdoors or somewhere other than inside the house every morning.

It really can be exhausting though. I seriously just go go go til' I am completely out of steam and then I have to collapse for a day and let Daddy take them out in the yard and wear them out.

I take them on a 2-3 our playdate every morning. They seem to be best off if we grab some "on the go" breakfast, healthy snacks, juice, etc. We meet up with our playgroup 7 days a week now.

WHY?

Not because I have that much energy, surely not.
Not because I have a growing need to socialize with other Moms daily
Not because I am bored to tears

Why then?

BECAUSE THEY GO APESH*T mad if I do not take them for that outing.
We start stripping, going potty on the floor, throwing food, throwing tantrums, biting, hitting, kicking, pushing, slapping, screaming, messing up everything, tossing toys from here to kingdom come, and fighting like crazy.

If I do this morning playdate, they come home and literally are cool little easy-going sweeties for the rest of the day. Well, mostly.

I have found that they need to graze all day. If they get hungry or thirsty and the food is not already within arms reach to snack and drink...they beat the living daylights out of one another.

They will just haul off and start toddler smackdown.

I try to be very observant of these little munchkins. They are nothing like singletons. Seriously a twins brain must work so much differently than a singleton.

Thank goodness Daddy's work schedule allows time for him to take over and entertain a few times a month. I Will go go go until that one morning I get up and feel like I am 104 instead of 34. So that day is my "siesta" day.

For those with no Daddy available in the morning for the playdate.....you will have to find a way to work around it or get a lot of extra sleep.

Maybe have an "in home" playdate on that day.

They need to interact with other kids or they really act out badly.

What's funny is that half of the time they do not even really play with the other kids..they just like to be with them.

If you are not in a playgroup start one or go to meetup.com and for the love of your sanity..find one!!
Nothing on meetup?  try yahoo groups.

I know that all kids need to socialize and they all need activities and playtime but twins really seem to be so much different. It's like there is no option to avoid it.

So, Moms of two year old twins..... keep the snacks coming the juice/water/milk cups filled and go on playdates every morning....or as much as humanly possibly.

OH and I also noticed if my twins toys get too messy they act out more too.

The attitudes really change when the toys are all nice and organized!!

Saturday, June 26, 2010

We have bottle drama.

My twins still are on Similac Soy Toddler Milk, they still drink it from bottles. We are not ready to torture them with removing bottles quite yet

Anyhow we usually give Parker a bottle with a blue nipple ring and Graham one with an orange nipple ring.
Lately they have meltdowns if one has the bottle they want. I even have had this happen 2-3 times in the past 2 weeks when I gave them each an identical bottle..totally identical.
I will hand them each one at the same time or let them take them from my hand..but then one of them decided they want the bottle the other twin has and it turns into a tantrum...complete with screaming and banging their head on the floor.
I try switching then bottles and then the other twin starts his screaming tantrum.

fun huh!  :)

Thursday, June 24, 2010

Twins Clubs & Twin Moms

I keep meeting more and more twin moms who have had terrible experiences with their local twins club.
I feel bad for them.  I thought I would have a great experience with my local twins club but I did not.
See here.

What is the problem with so many Twins clubs?  I have heard so many horror stories and then ones very similar to my own. I have even heard of them alienating Triplet and Quad moms or acting oddly with them. I have heard of them alienating moms of twins who then end up getting pregnant after their twins and having a singleton. Why are so many twin moms against associating with other moms who have ONLY twins.
I love being able to chit chat with other twin and multiples moms. It is great but I do not limit myself to only twin moms. All of my singletons are much older and more independent, and are way past playgroup age. I could easily be one of those twin moms who will only associate with other twin moms. I choose not to. I really feel like I would have missed out on a lot of great mom friends if I had done so.  I understand the need for other twin mom companionship but are some twin moms taking it too far?

Do baby and toddler twins know that they are twins?  Do pre-school age twins fully understand what being a twin is?  Do school age twins care if they are not hanging out with another set of twins? Do twins age 0-18 feel if they are not hanging out with or playing with another set of twins that they are slighting themselves in some way? Do twins age 0-4 even notice or care that they are or are not playing with another set of twins?

I love being a twin mom and I love being friends with twin moms but I feel like I need all kinds of mom friends.

I really had high hopes for being in the local Twins and Triplets club but wow did they let me down and then some. I am still in shock at the bizarre and untrue accusations against me from the local twins club. All because someone was lazy and others misunderstood....and then never tried to make it right.
Sad.

I hope to keep meeting more twin moms. I do enjoy it but I would not trade my singleton mom friends. :)

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Twinisms


Are you one of those twin moms who don't like the twin nick names?
Twinkies, Twinkers, Twinces, Twincesses..etc etc.

I am


I am not sure what it is about the nicknames they just make me cringe. No offense to anyone who uses these nick names for their twins. I just don't like them. I guess it is kind of like not liking banana flavored popscicles or banana flavored candy. They taste utterly disgusting to me. I hated it when I was a child and my mom would buy banana flavored popscicles. I felt slighted. I would not eat them even if I was desperate for a popscicle. I usually froze some orange juice on those occasions. I guess she just really liked banana popscicles and maybe I was being naughty that week ro something. :)


Which brings me to thinking more into twinisms. Why do people have such a strange stigma about twins. When they see you in public they say things like.. "Oh dear I feel terrible for you"  or  "Wow do you have your hands full",  I hear a lot of  "I was so afraid I was going to have twins, so glad I did not:" and " Oh look out double trouble".  Not to forget the "I have a baby and a toddler, it is just like having twins but worse"  or  My 1 year old, 3 year old, and 5 year old are more difficult than having twins".  Been there done that honey, it is not the same.  You see I have an advantage over many twin moms.  I was a singleton mom x3. I have a child who is 14 and is 2.5 years older than my 2nd child who is 11 1/2...who in turn is 15 months older than my 3rd child who is 10. I was also a single mom for 7+ years. I lost my first husband in an auto related accident and was left at 25 years old with a 15 month old, a 2 year old, and a 5 year old who just started Kindergarten 2 weeks before. I had 3 kids very close in age....2 of which were even more close in age. I had an 8+ year break from having children and then my current husband and I decided to have one child, had a loss, and then had twins. Wow TWINS!! They are 2 now. 4/21/08 (32 weekers)

So I have really been there and done that. I can vouch for ALL twin moms far and wide.
Having children close in age is NOTHING AT ALL LIKE HAVING TWINS.
 I PROMISE YOU THIS 1000x OVER!!!

I know most people just are trying to make conversation when they see someone with twins but why all the negativity?  Yes twins is a bit tougher than one but it is not like all twin mosm have been given a lifetime of punishment. Having twins is not a bad thing. It should not be feared, and when you tell a twin mom you feel bad for her or it is better her than you.... that is just plain ignorant and rude.

I hope one day things change and moms who do not have twins no longer see twins as a punishment.Twins are tough and all but are such a great blessing and what a wonderful experience for a mom!

I will leave you with some pics....yes this is our living room and yes these toys are only my twins toys. I do not run a daycare..and it is only half the room. Daddy was napping so I did not take pics of the other half of the room which contains the big playskool tent, the ride on's, and the bouce on's. :)



Saturday, June 19, 2010

Big Bang Baby!!



Introducing.....................


My New Twins, Multiples, & Singletons Tee Shirt Shop!!
                                                http://www.cafepress.com/BigBangMom

Yes I decided to make tee shirts, why you ask? Because there are simply not enough cute tee shirts for Twins, Triplets, Quads, Quints, and Sextuplets.

I plan to specialize in multiples tee shirts and not just quirky ones!

So far I have added quite a few designs. I have 83 more to add...which takes time of course. I hope to have those designs all added by the end of July.

I have been pretty busy not only with my twins and my 3 singletons but with my 3 playgroups!!  I also hope to get this blog to really be going smoothly by the end of August.

Right now we are busy with lots of Summer Activities!!

If you are local or know someone local in Central Florida, check out my groups!!
North Orlando Sunshine Moms   
Sunshine Moms Twins and Multiples ages 0-4 Playgroup
Sunshine Moms Clothing and Toy Swap

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

TwinTuesday! What is your most memorable "public" twin experience?



Hey everyone! TwinHappyJen back with another TwinTuesday QOTW :-)

What is your most memorable "being stopped in public" experience?

Whether it was a comment someone made about your twins, or the circumstances surrounding being stopped... what one moment stands out in your mind as, "People really are crazy when it comes to twins." :-p

Mine was when my girls were just a couple of months old or so. I was at a new grocery store up the street, and I decided to stop and get some coffee. I was standing in line... the girls were asleep in their double stroller. And, then one person noticed them... and then another... and, before I knew it, there was a whole crowd gathered around them. It got so crazy that the walkway into the store actually became blocked (and this wasn't a narrow walkway by any means). I couldn't believe it!

What about you? What stands out in your mind as you most memorable "public" twin experience? :-) Feel free to leave your answer in the comments below... or, answer on your blog and leave a link to your post in the linky below! (And feel free to add the blog hop code to your blog post, as well!)

P.S. You can also feel free to talk about anything you'd like in the TwinTuesday posting on your own blog... the QOTW is just meant as a discussion starter, but you're certainly not restricted to that as a topic :-)



The next TwinTuesday QOTW:

Have you taken your twins on a road trip, yet? And, if so, any tips/tricks for making the ride smoother? :-)

Come back next week to answer!



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Friday, June 11, 2010

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

FAQ sheet for Triplets

I'll bite on the "Question of the Week" this week. The most memorable occasion of being stopped in public actually came when I only had two babies, instead of three. It was during the two weeks between when Brenden and Caitlin came home, and when Tamara was finally able to come home. Brian and I had gone shopping at Kmart with the babies. We took the triplet stroller, but since we were short one baby we left the middle seat off so we could put our purchase there instead, like a shopping cart.

A gawker approached us during our trip. "Oh how cute! Are they twins?"

"No, they're triplets," we said.

I kid you not, this woman LOOKED UNDERNEATH THE STROLLER for the third baby before we had a chance to explain that the third was in the hospital.

So with that, I bring you my Frequently Asked Questions list:

These are all real, live questions from real, live people, most of them asked at least once every day. In case you can't tell, they are really starting to get on our nerves. We would definitely recommend not saying any of the following to any triplets/parents you may meet:

Are they twins?
No. (Where does this question come from? People who can't count?)

I bet you have your hands full!
I bet you think you're original, don't you?

Do you really have three babies in that stroller?
No. It's only two babies and a doll. I'm psychotic and just think they're three babies.

Are they all yours?
Nope, I'm just masochistic, I like taking lots of babies everywhere I go.

Are all three triplets?
No. I get my kicks off of dressing up other people's children like my own.

I've never seen triplets before!
Neither have I.

I've never seen a triplet stroller before!
Neither have I.

Are they all different sexes?
Yes, that's right, we have one boy, one girl, and one alien.

Are they all boys?
Yup. We really wanted some girls, though, so we dress a couple in pink hoping they'll change their minds.

Two boys and a girl?
That's right, two drag queens and one bull dyke.

Nobody ever asks us if they're all girls, though, or even two girls and a boy. Feel free to if you see us.

How do you manage?
I'm not sure. My memory is pretty fuzzy right now. Could you pass me another drink? I need to take my medication now.

Did you know you were going to have triplets?
1st Answer:

Nope. My weight gain and size had the doctors completely mystified, and the ultrasound didn't show a darn thing. They never could figure out which lump was the head.
2nd Answer:
Yup. We had this planned from the beginning. We went to the doc and said, "Ok, we want to have three babies at once. Don't mind the leather and chains; we're into sado-masochism."

Do triplets run in your family?
They do now.

Were you on drugs?
Not before, but I sure do need them now. What have you got on you?

Were you on fertility drugs?
Do you want the long answer or the short one? Because by asking the question, you don't seem to understand the true risks involved in fertility treatment. In fact, yes, I was on fertility drugs. It was the lowest-level, least effective "fertility" drug on the market. I was also given a less than 5% chance of having twins. Triplets were never mentioned. If you think I should have been expecting this, think again. And how were your children conceived?

Do they all sleep at the same time?
This question made a little more sense the first year; after 16 months or so it started to seem a little insane. If they weren't sleeping together at some point, they would need to have some serious health problems.

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Happy TwinTuesday! Twin Conventions/Meet Ups?



Hey everyone! Well, I seem to say this too often lately, but getting another late start. The girls and I just took a really long walk today (Anna in particular has just been wanting to explore the neighborhood lately)... and, then we all kind of collapsed when we got back :-p I got up just in time to get them off to school (it was the first time I had to wake them up for school :-p).

I also just got off the phone with a reporter, who wanted to talk to me about my experience with TTTS. I don't want to say more than that (I don't know how much I should and shouldn't say about it right now), but if/when the article goes up, I'll certainly post a link to it here! I just hope I didn't sound like too much of an idiot :-p I think I have some kind of phone phobia. Whenever I'm talking to someone I don't know really well, I get so nervous.... I start laughing a lot... and even just picking up the phone to call someone I don't know really well can sometimes be nearly impossible for me to do. I just do much better with meeting people in person or (especially) chatting online... I don't know what it is, but I usually avoid the phone as much as possible :-p

Anyway, back to TwinTuesday, I just realized that I never did post what today's QOTW would be, on last week's TwinTuesday posting... I'm so sorry! Will keep this week's question short and easy to answer...

Have you ever attended any kind of twins convention or meet-up?

I actually attended my first meet-up, right before the girls' 1st birthday. I organized a little trip to the DC Zoo, with a few other twin Moms that I chatted with on a twins message board. It was fun! It could have been better, though... I think the zoo just wasn't necessarily the best place for a first meeting between many different people, who didn't really know each other well: It was busy, everybody was trying to keep track of their own children, and ultimately everyone ended up going their separate ways. But still, it was a great first experience! And, in the future I'd love to do more (I don't know why I haven't before now)....

The only other thing I've done is taken the girls up to Twinsburg, OH (just outside of Cleveland) for the annual Twins Days Festival! Went up with my husband and the girls in August of '07 and took them again, by myself (I know, I'm crazy :-p) in August of '09. It is definitely something you should do, at least once, with your twins... especially when they get old enough to really understand their "twindom." I think it's so great for my girls to see that, they are not the only twins in the world... not by a long shot :-p It's a really great experience! And, my ultimate dream is to organize my own Twins Festival, in my own neck of the woods... I think it would be great to have more, in other areas!

For the time being, though, I'm currently working on my online twins festival: Twinstock! :-D I just set it up the other day, but have already received a whole bunch of sponsorship offers... and, since I still have almost a couple of months before it actually starts, I think this year's celebration is gonna blow last year's away! :-D I also have so many ideas for it...

But, I digress :-p What about you? Have you attended and/or hosted any kind of twins meet-up, convention, etc? Feel free to leave your answer in the comments below... or, answer on your blog and leave a link to your post in the linky below! (And feel free to add the blog hop code to your blog post, as well!)

P.S. You can also feel free to talk about anything you'd like in the TwinTuesday posting on your own blog... the QOTW is just meant as a discussion starter, but you're certainly not restricted to that as a topic :-)



P.S. And yes, Twinstock is what's been keeping me busy the past week :-p Sorry for letting TwinTuesday suffer because of it! But, to try and get on the right track, here's the next TwinTuesday QOTW:

What is your most memorable "being stopped in public" experience? Whether it was a comment someone made about your twins, or the circumstances surrounding being stopped... what one moment stands out in your mind as, "People really are crazy when it comes to twins." :-p



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